I've seen quite a bit of confusion in the game so let me do a bit of clearing up.
Yes, you DO Need to have either 200 AAs, OR have killed ALL of the Elemental Gods (Coirnav, Rathe, Fennin, and Xegony) as well as Quarm. What order you do them in does not matter (Quarm provides you a flag upon death, no hail for it unlike with elemental gods). I did them in order on my rogue successfully, then did them with a friend who did Quarm first then elementals and worked successfully.
Unsure if you can handle fabled NTOV? Chances are you haven't tried West TOV either. If you can handle Fabled Lendinaria in West TOV, you're likely going to be able to handle north as well.
Zone into the normal ToV and there's a big giant guy to talk to at the entrance. Once you have your instance, you can teleport back to it via a Magus (gives a new option when you Hail one with an active instance).
Tried to zone into Fabled ToV for the first time, both me and my brother were able to zone in, but we could not walk around or see anything, literally. Like the zone files were missing?
Anyone know a fix? Total bummer, we were excited to try it...